Another
major difference and something that will take some time for me to get used to:
my job as a substitute for good parenting / discipline instruction for these
students. Why, you ask? Allow me to explain a well-documented side effect of
the one-child policy. The typical Chinese child grows up at the center of the
household where both sets of grandparents live in the same house (or nearby and
stay-over for babysitting often). The policy was enacted in 1979 which, when
you do the math, means many young adult parents in their late 20s and early 30s
were born post-policy, meaning each parent is also an only child. Since many of
these families are two generations of no siblings, the young kids today are the
apple of the parents and grandparent’s eyes. I mean, the child is both sets of
grandparents only grandchild! You better believe that kid is spoiled, always
gets attention when they want it, and they run the household. This is so
well-understood here that the kids are called “little emperors and empresses,”
and this is only said partly tongue-in-cheek. The first few weeks of class are
a difficult adjustment period for the students who now have to share the
spotlight with other kids, on top of being separated from family. So in
addition to teaching English, my role is also to teach good focus habits,
manners, and how to deal with not getting their way, all the time. Another
difference: since my new company is Western run and a private company, things
actually get done and my inputs are well-received. The government school in
Thailand was bogged down in paperwork procedures, getting signatures: basically
the feared Vogon bureaucrats from “A Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy.”
My
school, being a private company, is interested in growing and providing our
program to more students. My HR manager, Anthony, is in charge of the hiring of
new teachers as we grow, as well as arranging their accommodations, guides in
the city, and airport pickup. Management has asked me to be in charge of the
marketing. I bring in the students so Anthony can hire more teachers! I’m
hoping some of my friends in America will be looking into teaching abroad when
my school starts hiring (hint, hint).
The
Chinese assistant teachers here are wonderful. They are so sweet and helpful.
Altogether, there are twelve ladies who help us out in the classroom and around
the office. Most of them have just graduated from university and are now
working their very first job. So we have some major training to conduct with
them, which is at times a shell-shock for the Chinese to be so quickly baptized
in the Western fires of the workplace…but they take the on-the-job training in
stride and they are improving. This week, I’ll be conducting a sales training
course for them. In addition to running the office, producing our teaching
materials, helping discipline in class, and everything else the Chinese
teachers do, they are always happy to order food for me and the foreigners,
since we don’t understand the menus! They show us different options and the
food is usually delivered to our building within thirty minutes. What’s more,
the Chinese teachers also serve as our friendly tour guides around the city for
errands and shopping needs. All in all, I think we have a great team! I must
say, this job is a great fit for me.
Here is a picture of one of our colorful classrooms with chef Anthony serving up some delicious options!
Here is a picture of one of our colorful classrooms with chef Anthony serving up some delicious options!
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